January 05, 2010

Now I know what Ben would look like as a girl*

princess_ben.jpg
Ben and his pal Sayana, iphone

Or if he went through a princess phase. This photo has provided me with endless giggles.

Posted on January 5, 2010 09:05 AM
Comments

Andrea, this is layers and layers of cool.

Posted by: David at January 14, 2010 03:02 PM

now I am giggling too .. love it.

Posted by: elizabeth at January 11, 2010 09:39 PM

He is a beautiful child, no matter how he dresses!

Posted by: Sarah at January 11, 2010 10:33 AM

this is such a happy picture and very precious

Posted by: Leslie at January 10, 2010 05:13 PM

Hilarious!! My 2 boys are often in my closet trying on my high heeled shoes. Pretty funny stuff.

Posted by: Gretchen Schock at January 10, 2010 06:44 AM

I cannot even get over this.... canNOT.
Holy geez, this is such incredible goodness.

Posted by: cath at January 9, 2010 11:20 AM

Adorable! I love that they are holding hands. And the shoes! I love 'em.

Posted by: natalie at January 8, 2010 09:05 AM

bosom buddies!
so cute.

Posted by: wendy at January 8, 2010 06:51 AM

Aw...he's so cute! ;)

Posted by: mamasontherun at January 7, 2010 11:27 AM

Aw...he's so cute! ;)

Posted by: mamasontherun at January 7, 2010 11:27 AM

this photo is making me so crazy! i cant take the cuteness...

Posted by: ann at January 7, 2010 08:52 AM

I love how they have their hands clasped together!

Posted by: sara at January 7, 2010 07:29 AM

erupting in giggles up here!

LOVE this -

Posted by: amy Komar at January 7, 2010 12:46 AM

I love that you can enjoy that moment! Do you realize how many parents would never let their sons play and dress up that way? Really. What an awesome parent you are!

Posted by: A at January 6, 2010 09:25 PM

I love that you can enjoy that moment! Do you realize how many parents would never let their sons play and dress up that way? Really. What an awesome parent you are!

Posted by: A at January 6, 2010 09:25 PM

I can't stop laughing.
At first I was wondering what you meant because I didn't SEE that it was BEN. I thought I was looking at two girls!

Posted by: Catherine at January 6, 2010 05:03 PM

Love this! Jacob (age 8) has long hair right now. I often look at him and imagine what a little girl might look like. Ben looks precious.

Posted by: Jennifer at January 6, 2010 03:52 PM

So cute! My 5 year old son's best friends are girls and there are often dressing up as princesses, with his long blond hair he makes a pretty girl. I've got lots of photos like this one!

Posted by: Faith at January 6, 2010 01:32 PM

I have three boys and one girl. Their favorite Saturday morning game? Dressing up in princess and tutu attire. I love it!

xo

Posted by: pixiemama at January 6, 2010 10:33 AM

Very pretty, indeed.

Posted by: emma at January 6, 2010 09:43 AM

sooooo sweet!!! i am told that when my husband was little, he went through a time when he wanted to wear a dress, so his parents got him a red velvet dress that he loved and wore a lot. i love that his parents did that for him.

Posted by: crissy at January 6, 2010 07:40 AM

I have photos of my now 13-year-old son in a curly blonde wig, in a purple tutu and matching beret, and many other lovely girly outfits. He and his older sister used to LOVE dress up when he was little. It was tough not to laugh really hard when I saw him all dolled up, but wonderful to see them so happy together. Even he laughs when he sees the photos nowadays.

Thanks for sharing!

Also - my word for 2010 is "pilgrimage." Going on a journey, many journeys, I hope. I really like the image of you in a cafe with your journal and pen, sketching and writing and making lists. Such a lovely vision. Miss you.

Posted by: GailNHB at January 6, 2010 05:37 AM

He looks pretty!...like a friend who was often wearing girls stuffs as a child and is now gay.
He is my best friend.

Posted by: Kiki at January 5, 2010 11:39 PM

Be. Still. My. Heart.

Posted by: Puanani at January 5, 2010 11:06 PM

I love this photo! My son (3 1/2) has two older sisters, so he is very comfortable wearing girly dressup. He was Tinkerbell for Hallowe'en this year!

Posted by: Belinda at January 5, 2010 09:10 PM

Never throw this one out!

Posted by: Katrina at January 5, 2010 08:40 PM

It will also provide his jr. high school pals with endless giggles!

Posted by: linda at January 5, 2010 08:13 PM

He looks amazing in pink! And princess clothes are way more fun than prince clothes!

Posted by: nina at January 5, 2010 07:02 PM

He's pretty!
I told you so at BlogHer. (In a nice way, not stalker-ish at all, I promise.)

Posted by: blackbird at January 5, 2010 06:59 PM

well, he is beautiful! happy new year to you!

Posted by: Emily Perry at January 5, 2010 06:50 PM

Cute either way.

Posted by: Wanda at January 5, 2010 05:36 PM

Oh dear lord! That is soooo sweet.
The thing is, the whole ensemble really suits him.
What a treasure.

Posted by: Kat at January 5, 2010 04:49 PM

Whatever he wears that kid is beautiful!

And yes, mondo bizarro!

;)

Posted by: bahiehk at January 5, 2010 04:42 PM

so much like my son at that age -- in nylons, nail polish, aprons, the works, i loved it all and do i have pix -- (ben makes a darling girl)...

Posted by: Michelle Shopped at January 5, 2010 04:09 PM

i could show you pix of my son -- nylons, nail polish, the works when he was that age -- love it! (ben makes a darling girl -- benita?) (then i actually had a girl and people cracked up at how much they look alike -- mondo bizarro -- cookie cutter kids they called them -- even tho temperamentally they're very different)

Posted by: Michelle Shopped at January 5, 2010 04:06 PM

HILARIOUS!!!!!
you know this could be used as blackmail on his wedding day or 21st birthday...etc!!!!
love it!

Posted by: kolleen at January 5, 2010 03:07 PM

I love how seamlessly kids can cross gender lines.
My son loves to clunk around the house on princess heels, and then zip some rubber bands from his DIY shooter.

Posted by: 6512 and growing at January 5, 2010 01:38 PM

so awesome and hilarious!! love this!!

xo

Posted by: stef at January 5, 2010 01:15 PM

um. i think in about 10 years he's going to be very mad at you. however, i love how you've styled his hair nicely into an enviable set of bangs.

Posted by: denise at January 5, 2010 01:09 PM

hehehehehe. i giggled and giggled when i saw this. i live with a married couple who has an almost 3 year old boy, and his 2 girl cousins live next door and dress him up like this too. so funny.

Posted by: celisa at January 5, 2010 12:51 PM

oh that is the sweetest photo! too cute:)

Posted by: tricia at January 5, 2010 12:16 PM

They're beautiful!

Posted by: Alesia at January 5, 2010 11:52 AM

They're beautiful!

Posted by: Alesia at January 5, 2010 11:52 AM

I think You need think about it also. Despite the emails, the overwhelming evidence showing global warming is happening hasn’t changed.

Posted by: new teens at January 5, 2010 11:44 AM

Ben is so in touch with his feminine side! He is adorable !

Posted by: marilee pittman at January 5, 2010 11:32 AM

how cute is this?!! Made me giggle too! Oh the joy kids bring to us!!

Posted by: Mariella at January 5, 2010 11:09 AM

Boy or Girl or Princess or whatever....that is one adorable kid!

Posted by: Amy at January 5, 2010 10:55 AM

I've been meaning to tell you for a long time...I think you're just great. So easy to read and understand, like I'm listening to a good friend. I appreciate your honesty and humor. All rather refreshing and real.
Thank you and may your New Year be filled exactly as it should be.

Posted by: Crystine at January 5, 2010 10:54 AM

oh my gosh, he looks so sweet. I wonder what our world would look like if we all had access to our three-year-old, holding hands- sweetness. Or if boys were allowed to feel like they could keep on being such an easy part of girls' worlds if they wanted to.

Posted by: Sandra at January 5, 2010 10:53 AM

Oh I love it! I have pictures similar to that of my son playing dress up with his big sister. So sweet.

Posted by: Annie at January 5, 2010 10:24 AM

Oh I love it! I have pictures similar to that of my son playing dress up with his big sister. So sweet.

Posted by: Annie at January 5, 2010 10:23 AM

That is really to cute! What a great capture!

Posted by: Grey Street Girl at January 5, 2010 10:19 AM

and holding hands!
I didn't see that at first.
Oh. My. Goodness.

Posted by: Rebecca in Switzerland at January 5, 2010 10:09 AM

oh my. hilarious and totally adorable. makes me want to see what I'd look like as a princess...

Posted by: Maya at January 5, 2010 09:55 AM

that is so adorable. absolutely precious!

Posted by: Anshu at January 5, 2010 09:12 AM

that is so adorable. absolutely precious!

Posted by: Anshu at January 5, 2010 09:12 AM

that is so adorable. absolutely precious!

Posted by: Anshu at January 5, 2010 09:12 AM